tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post4526321488376101848..comments2023-08-19T06:14:31.260-05:00Comments on a short history of now: here comes that feeling againShannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04675247540496962851noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post-87350993542191054052010-11-04T07:53:17.736-05:002010-11-04T07:53:17.736-05:00I felt the same way during my pregnancy with C. I ...I felt the same way during my pregnancy with C. I couldn't get into all that "mommy" stuff. <br /><br />This time around, I'm okay with the fact that I'm just not into that stuff. It's not me, it's not who I am. I am most certainly a mother, but I don't need to do that stuff to be prepared. When I gave birth to C, I found that I already knew everything I needed to, and that she taught me the rest. <br /><br />So maybe you have no interest in these things because...you don't need them. Maybe this just isn't who you are, Shan. <br /><br />It was very telling that in my first pregnancy, I couldn't look at maternity clothes without feeling ashamed or embarrassed. It was truly overwhelming and left me in tears. I don't think it was hormones, either.<br /><br />I love you.FemmePhilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00408721238237228729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post-41963855269073169132010-10-27T15:48:36.776-05:002010-10-27T15:48:36.776-05:00Perhaps my dear, it would be more fruitful to focu...Perhaps my dear, it would be more fruitful to focus on what you need, not necessarily linked to the pregnancy. A massage? A cuddle? A new cd or two? Whatever that is, it sounds like it is time for a treat for you.<br /><br />If you want to talk, I have an ear for you always. And a new phone number. I'll send you a message and we can have a phone date if that would help.<br /><br />I love you.<br /><br />((Squiiish))Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14665501803399980529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post-47296590834764772382010-10-25T16:44:56.210-05:002010-10-25T16:44:56.210-05:00At this point I like to insert something uplifting...At this point I like to insert something uplifting to encourage the tired, sick feeling mommy-to-be, but alas, my search for truth won't allow it. <br /><br />I will say this: Being a mommy will be filled with days where you are just feeling too tired to bother, but then a soft little hand will grab yours or you will gaze on said baby whilst asleep and you will be magically filled back up with hope and joy and love.<br /><br />The best is yet to come babe, and the worst, but for sure the best!Mindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02955272668964322627noreply@blogger.com