tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-69116145407602636042024-03-05T11:53:05.963-06:00a short history of nowShannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04675247540496962851noreply@blogger.comBlogger369125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post-45347198535591658332016-08-30T13:28:00.003-05:002016-08-30T13:28:41.534-05:00'cause what she's doin' now is tearin' me apartThe subtitle of this post is: fucking food.<br />
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For the last few years I have been battling an extreme selective eater. But as a busy working single parent I am often not with my child for 3 meals a day. Then we went on a week long vacation. <br />
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Sloane eats these things and exactly these things: Quaker Oats brand chocolate chip granola bars, Velveeta Shells & Cheese, Mac and Cheese by Kraft (only the original no different shaped noodles), chocolate milk, sausage patties, bacon (but only microwaved and not if it's crunchy), Tyson chicken nuggets (only if prepared between two paper towels otherwise they are too greasy and served with only original Sweet Baby Ray's BBQ sauce), pancakes w/ syrup, Campbell's original condensed chicken noodle soup, occasionally a french fry or two, toast or a bagel with butter, peanut butter but rarely, chocolate or brown sugar poptarts, Chocolate chip mini muffins, bananas, Lunchables (but only the turkey and she eats only the turkey), soft pretzels with cheese, plain tortilla chips and nacho cheese, pepperonis (sometimes will eat a few bites of pizza), hotdogs (microwaved between paper towels because again, too greasy), chocolate ice cream (in a dish not a shake, no syrups or toppings), popcorn, chocolate chip cookies and Wendy's spicy chicken nuggets (although she never eats a complete one she leaves one bite of each one at the end saying it was too spicy or too crunchy or too greasy).<br />
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That's 24 foods people. Seriously.<br />
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Nothing is a big motivator. People said she will get hungry let her go hungry. I did for 3 days. She only drank water and ate the first breakfast.<br />
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She gags over foods. Nothing no amount of bribery works. I can promise her the moon and everything on her Christmas list to try a bite of something and NOPE. <br />
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So vacation made me extremely anxious. Plus we were with my boyfriend, his two sons, and his parents for most of the time and for the first time.<br />
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Sloane had also never traveled to speak of.<br />
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The second night I sobbed myself to sleep.<br />
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It sucks that my kid has basically defined her life at this stage with this. It begins first thing in the morning with her worries and obsessing over what we will eat that day. If breakfast goes poorly it colors the whole day. Then I have to decide what to war over for the day. Every meal time and before meal time is a negotiation and I am fucking exhausted.<br />
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In the meantime do you realize how much stock we put into kids eating habits. Being a good eater means you are a good kid, you're respectful of authority, you're healthy and growing so well. Being a picky eater, well you're none of those things and you often don't only miss out on praise you miss out on rewards.<br />
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You never get a break from this until they are asleep. And then it just starts over the next morning. My pediatrician says not to worry, she isn't malnourished, she's growing etc. BUT for socializing and now for school lunch period this has made our lives hell. <br />
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As a parent I've bullied her, bribed her, tricked her (yes I tried the Jessica Seinfeld book) shamed her, coaxed her and starved her into trying to get her to eat and none of that feels very good for me or her.<br />
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We hardly ever go out to eat. Restaurants = stress for her and then stress for me. I'd love to go have a girls night out with her but so many reinforcers are about food in our society. Let's get coffee, go out to eat, have a frozen yogurt together, let's get donuts etc. <br />
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Holidays also make me want to just stay home and hide, because then there is the added pressure on the host/hostess to try and find something to make Sloane happy and frankly sometimes with food that just isn't possible, even if you serve one of her requests.<br />
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I'm also aware that this tends to be seen as a parent being too permissive, not insisting on nutritious foods and sometimes being selective themselves. Which does nothing to solve the problem and only serves to make the parent feel like a bigger pile of shit than they already do. Actually, I am not a selective eater. I eat extremely well, am an adventurous eater and have been from a young age. Anyone who says that a parent is too permissive is guaranteed never gone through the same problem with the same type of child. And I am not what would be considered a permissive parent by any other standards.<br />
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<i>Everyone knows country music is for when you are sad....title from What She's Doing Now by Garth Brooks</i>Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04675247540496962851noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post-91398037769441284122016-08-26T12:44:00.000-05:002016-08-26T12:44:03.210-05:00I pray the water wash away the memories and the costWhat happened? What happened was you can't heal a wound if you keep picking the scab off, and a watched pot never boils and all that stuff.<br />
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One day, the super great human being I am dating now found my blog. Because it isn't a secret and it's linked to my Goodreads. And he read a few of the posts, mostly about how brokenhearted I was without my exbf, and how in love with him I was. And I know that this was hurtful to my current bf, and when looking at it all together like that, it was quite a shrine and it was more than a little bit unrepresentative of my life as a whole.<br />
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I reverted it all to draft form. And he said, oh he'd just not read my blog, no problem I should have s pace to say whatever I want.<br />
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But I also was looking at those posts an awful lot more than I needed to and this place where I used to write everything became about one thing.<br />
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So I'm keeping it in draft for now. And I'm going to write about other stuff. Because there's a lot of it. And I'll write about love again too, because I have stuff to say.<br />
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<i>title is from God of Ocean Tides, Counting Crows (like I'd come back with any other band)</i>Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04675247540496962851noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post-39019288504167551542015-12-14T15:02:00.001-06:002016-08-30T13:31:07.174-05:00dressed in the fabric of a world unfolding<div class="separator" style="clear: both;">
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Dearest girl,<br />
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Today you are 5. The last five years...that's a musical, you know. It doesn't work in this case because it's about a broken heart. It's about a love shown backwards to the audience, that way it breaks their hearts too. Which you know me, you know I like that stuff. Because it's real. Plus Jason Robert Brown wrote the music so it's quality.<br />
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I like things that are real. The last five years have been the most real of my 35. I came to the NICU to feed you and see you and breathe you in and the lady saw me at the locked door through the tiny window and told her colleague: "it's Sloane's mom, open the door." I'd never been anything but "Shannon" and from that moment when you were just a day old I never was "just Shannon" again.<br />
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So the last five years have been full of heartache and regret and anxiety. I married your dad. I tried for many years with him (before you came and after) to make us work and we couldn't. My heart broke. I divorced your dad. And nothing during any of that was worth much to me unless it was a measurement of your happiness. So, I felt like a ratty mom. A mom who gave up on keeping her child's family together. I felt selfish. But slowly because of you I rebuilt my shaky confidence in my motherhood. Every time you'd put your chubby hands out to me I grew a little bit stronger. "Your beauty trumped my doubt." (it's a lyric by Mumford and Sons, there's always a lot of supplemental reading when it comes to your mother's writing). <br />
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So it wasn't perfect. But somewhere I had and still have this dream in me that our happiness isn't mutually exclusive. And in fact that if you didn't have a mother who could be happy you could never learn to be happy either. And I think a lot about that hymn from when I was a little girl that we would sing in church and I hope it's true: "farther along we'll know all about it, farther along we'll understand why. Cheer up my brother, live in the sunshine, we'll understand it all by and by." <br />
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There are people who will tell you when you are older that you shouldn't have regrets, or that they in fact don't have any regrets. I will tell you that if you become a parent this idea is utter bullshit.<br />
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I have one million regrets and they are all, every single one (besides everything I did in the year 2001) about you. They stem from how I could've made you happier, or how I could have prevented you from hurting. <br />
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I try to best navigate by how to make you not only feel happy but how to help you turn into someone who is kind and intelligent, a woman who doesn't fear any part of herself, a person who passionately seeks but who is not too involved with herself to help others find. It's hard to navigate. I mess up a lot. You'll know soon: I'm bad at maps, directions, and even Siri gets me lost sometimes.<br />
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Until I figure out the next step though, I have a constant companion. You sing silly made up songs a lot of the time, some mornings you are quite grumpy, some days you tell me you don't want to live with me (some of those days I don't want to live with me either), but when you are away the sound of the quiet is different. The quiet when you are asleep is a blissful quiet, sweet and colored with the exhaustion from going through another day together. The quiet when you are gone feels like a humid room. It gives me time to think about all the missteps and how to correct my navigation and it makes me count the hours until the quiet is replaced with your voice.<br />
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For everything that ever hurt or will hurt, I am sorry. I promise I think of you more than you will ever know. I am prouder of you than anything I've ever achieved. And I love you more than I love anyone else including myself.<br />
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Happy birthday, all I want for you is everything good and many, many more. <br />
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Love,<br />
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Mama<br />
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the title is from a song by ani difranco, I hope there is a woman musician who does for you what she did for your mommy a long time ago...the song is called The Slant. The full lyric is this:<br />
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I am a work in progress<br />
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offering me intricate patterns of questions<br />
rhythms that never come clean<br />
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Gwen Stefani who's performance will give you the feels <i>Used To Love You </i>for the title</div>
Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04675247540496962851noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post-58350330886485084382015-11-23T15:01:00.000-06:002016-08-30T13:39:38.979-05:00She don't want anybody to see what she looks like when she's downI broke my rules. On the weekend. On the weekend without my daughter (see also: extra quiet and lonely). I looked at Pinterest which is like a barrage of visual and mental "your heart is broken! don't you miss him!" madness.<br />
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And I went downstairs. Where I have his stuff in a box. Including his cologne that smells like the best thing on the planet and sort of like the old lady who swallowed a fly...I guess I'll die. <br />
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Not actually. I just feel like her. I did something silly and felt like a fool and like dying or such.<br />
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As soon as Sloane's party is planned Pinterest is finding itself deleted again.<br />
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Thankfully I have avoided that bitch Adele. And there is one thing I absolutely refuse to concede to: any of these "broken" sentiments.<br />
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I am not broken. Lies and wasted time and empty promises are just that. I'm the kind of badass bitch who has been through a lot worse than this and still manage to run an amazing life and look pretty fashionable while I do it. <br />
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<i>She don't want nobody near, from the Counting Crows for the title <!--3--></i>Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04675247540496962851noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post-29707120435300244852015-11-11T14:44:00.001-06:002016-08-30T13:37:46.438-05:00When the morning comes, let it go, this too shall passIn my early twenties, I like many other women my age and older was obsessed with <i>Sex and The City</i>. I identified (still identify) with Carrie. The longsuffering, overthinking, terrible man choosing albeit fashionable Carrie. <br />
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On Sundays I'd watch SATC with my very best friend and a total Charlotte, Breann. <br />
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So Breann over the years has taken to describing my relationships in SATC characters. I've had way too old for me Aleksander Petrovsky (must be in the name), I've had my sensitive and wonderful Aiden that I destroyed chasing who I thought was Mr. Big at the time. And Now I have my very own Jack Berger. <br />
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<i>title from OK GO: This too shall pass </i></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">How To Mend Your Broken Heart in 7 Steps </span></b></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>1. Uninstall Pinterest for 4 months.</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>2. Fuck Adele</b></span>. Yes, I know, Adele's new album drops next week, yes I know she won a crap ton of Grammys. DO NOT DOWNLOAD. </div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">3. Your smart phone was made for break ups</span>. Use all functions available until emotionally stable enough to delete. a) HIDE all the pictures. b) give him a new name that reminds you to STOP that behavior this instant, missy! c) delete the playlists d) block that number baby</div>
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<b><span style="font-size: large;">4. You are not friends.</span></b> Therefore you are not "following" on apps you are not "friends" on FB. This one hurts but rip that disgusting band-aid that's hanging from your scraped up ego off. And throw it away. You also need to unfollow his sister. Don't forget his mom, even if she did send you a message indicating she thinks her son is a complete moron. Do it. And do it now.<br />
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<b><span style="font-size: large;">5. Congrats you are a girl.</span></b> You are allowed through society's patriarchy to post a GORGEOUS selfie as your new profile picture to every social media outlet you have available. If he posts a selfie to FB he looks like a desperate weirdo or a total douche bag (unless he's under 21). But you my dear, you should look flipping gorgeous every time he searches for you late at night (or even if he doesn't, whatever he does, he totally does).<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>6. Post sappy things only where they WILL NOT, CAN NOT get back to him </b></span>(that's why you do #4 and #5 first and keep a blog that he doesn't know about). Everywhere else you have your one new picture (don't look desperate girl) and nothing but rainbows and roses.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>7. Have an ample supply of straight men in your life who will tell you he's a dick and he's out of his mind.</b></span> If you don't have any use your brother and download the Griffin House song "The Guy That Says Goodbye To You." (also staring at Griffin House is implied in this directive). Gay men are great too, but this one's better coming from a guy who likes vaginas lots. <br />
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<i>Post title from the hottie with the hair and eyes and arms, Griffin House - The Guy That Says Goodbye To You Is Out Of His Mind </i></div>
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Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04675247540496962851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post-68611239642573141932015-11-03T12:59:00.000-06:002016-08-30T13:32:00.982-05:00But no word or warning do you say. One minute right beside me, another you're a thousand miles away<i>When I said "I'll take it." I meant: as is. Just give up and admit you're an asshole... And I think you'd find that your friends would forgive you but maybe I'm just speaking for me. </i> - <i>As Is</i> by Ani Difranco<br />
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I often tell clients that sometimes their pain lives in a place without words. Which seems only poetic, but it's actually true. Trauma experiences are stored in the opposite hemisphere than language. So asking someone to process with words could be asking someone with a broken leg to walk to a hospital to set their leg.<br />
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I use <a href="http://www.meaningofmandalas.com/mandalas-as-art-therapy/">Mandalas</a> with clients in lieu of journaling occasionally because it provides a container (the circle) for their feelings, and a boundary. Also because if a client is not highly literate (or young) words can be intimidating and feeling like they are set up for failure before the activity even begins.<br />
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So here are two of mine. I prefer oil pastels because I love to smudge and get my fingers messy and I title mine, a lot of times with song lyrics like the one below is a lyric from <i>Possibility Days</i> by the Counting Crows or with thoughts that I think they capture, like the top photo. I always date them. Titling and dating is not necessary. It's just something I do to make it like a visual diary. And yes, the top photo is inside my car. I had the supplies in my work bag and I just had to "get it out." <br />
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Here's to the next step, which I am not happy about taking but not all of our steps make us feel thus.</div>
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<i>Title from You're No Train (from Songs for a Hurricane) by Kris Delmhorst </i></div>
Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04675247540496962851noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post-44711751945723614262015-11-02T17:35:00.000-06:002016-08-30T13:35:29.580-05:00"Sorry," is all that you can't sayI came home weary from traveling to NYC for a work conference but I was ecstatic to get back to Nick and me, the way we were before he was hospitalized. I couldn't wait for text messages and photo sharing and talks without people listening in a hallway and most of all for FaceTime. <br />
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On Tuesday evening after getting home early Tuesday morning and feeling something was off all day during our usual evening phone call I had to ask. "Are we okay, are you okay?" I didn't expect the answer.<br />
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I didn't expect this. Not in the way you don't expect your car to breakdown. I drive around acutely aware that my Subaru can break down (and does) at any moment. This was the kind of unexpected like you don't expect the sky to fall. <br />
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I believed Nick each time he reiterated how he'd never leave me, never give up on us, never divorce me unless I did something unforgivable. <br />
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He said "no." I said "what's going on? Do you still want to do this?" I wanted him and expected him to tell me how absurd my question was. Instead he said "I don't."<br />
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So without telling about how I got through sleepless nights of a deployment where his life was in danger often and telling you how I planned to be there come hell or high water (including delayed flights, a flat tire on my rental, waiting for a key to his house to come in the mail from Iraq) and how that weekend I got him from the airport and was in his arms again he planned the most surprise and beautiful heartfelt proposal on the beach in the moonlight with the most glittering and beautiful ring that meant the world to me, without telling you all that I'm here now.<br />
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I'm where I never wanted and never thought I'd be. <br />
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I never got a real explanation, it was a flurry of doubt, protecting me from himself/finding himself/you never did anything wrong I just wasn't happy anymore/the distance couldn't work anymore. I asked for a face to face conversation (via Face Time) to try and accept what he was telling me and I didn't get that either. <br />
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What hurts more than all of that is that he never told me he was sorry. He told other people he feels sorry, feels guilty. But when I confronted him via text (because it was my only choice) about how I just wanted him to apologize, well that was the final word between us. He never wrote back. Not even just two words.<br />
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Of course I'm left with one hundred thousand other words. Words that I don't know if he meant but then couldn't mean anymore, or was just pretending the whole time. iMessages, letters, notes, cards, inserts from flowers, a diamond ring, gifts, hundreds of song lyrics that he picked just for me to listen to, poems he'd find and send, words words words words words words words.<br />
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<i>title from my girl Tracy Chapman: Baby, can I hold you</i>.<br />
<br />Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04675247540496962851noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post-87347426516806008542015-09-15T20:19:00.001-05:002016-08-30T13:37:08.053-05:00A drop in the ocean, a change in the weatherWhen on the first day of your significant other's 28 day in-patient treatment you dream that you were on a ship together and so in love that the other people admired you and then you get separated. It doesn't take a lot of experience in dream interpretation to see what your subconscious was trying to process.<br />
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It was just one of those awful dreams where it mostly makes sense so you can't even feel better due to the absurdity of it. We were on a steamboat and at one of the stops we got out and jet skied and we got in the ocean. The water was clear like the gulf is where Nick lives. So we didn't bring our phones. (I have been mad at myself since August that I didn't bring my phone with us into the water because I have no pictures from that day in the ocean). Then we stopped at a chocolatier and got treats and then we were supposed to get back on the boat. I did but I couldn't find Nick. </div>
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All the way back to shore I screamed for him through the crowded boat but he was nowhere. Then I watched 3 boats after ours come ashore and he was nowhere. </div>
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I miss the ability to write him messages. During deployment I could FB message or email and when he's stateside we text throughout every day. </div>
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So I started this and a journal. With all the stuff I would say. I can say it at night on our 15 minute phone time (no FaceTime which is also hard). Or I might just give him to it at the end. </div>
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One whole day done. My life wasn't easy at all in any way today outside of Nick. So if I can do this I've decided to promote myself to "boss ass bitch." </div>
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<i>Title courtesy of Ron Pope: A drop in the ocean</i></div>
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Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04675247540496962851noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post-62717992380638946132015-05-18T12:51:00.000-05:002016-08-30T13:40:51.340-05:00I do not love you for the way you’ve been exactly what I’m looking for<span style="color: blue;">I love you for all of this, and so much more.</span> <br />
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While they were here we discussed dating. It had been about 6 months of separation (and of course what felt like years of solitude). We talked about my patterns. And they served me a bit of "real talk." I had a tendency in my past to choose men with strange relationships with their mothers: either fractured and unavailable (their grandparent or father raised them) or their mother was somewhat emotionally unavailable. <br />
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I have for a long time been jealous of my friends and my sister-in-law because they have a positive relationship with their mother-in-law. My last mother-in-law was not emotionally available to me. I felt like in the end she respected me as a mother and as a professional but I never felt she liked me. I am much like my mother in that I try to make occasions special with little notes and cards or baking something, or decorating something pretty. I tried this for years in my ex-husband's family but they were not receptive. Also other members of the family treated me with utter disregard and were impolite and rude to my face.<br />
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I tried for a long time during our courtship and marriage to win over my ex's family. I believed that kindness counted and that eventually they would really like me and want me around, they would appreciate me and respect my wishes for how I raise my child.<br />
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Most of my life I thought kindness and being nice mattered to the point of my own detriment. I often let people abuse me emotionally because I didn't want to cause a stir. Although I had this very strained and almost invisible relationship with my ex mother-in-law I allowed her to stay in the room when I went through the most intimate thing in my life: natural childbirth of my first and only child.<br />
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She was there and she never really asked to stay and I didn't speak up. In fact, many times since that day I have been sad that the act of allowing her to be there didn't seem to earn me much in return after it was such a sacrifice of privacy on my part.<br />
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So part one of my friends <b>NO COMPROMISES</b> list was: he has to have a normal relationship with his mother. His mother must have the capability to allow someone in to her son's life. He will not be "needing a mother" (i.e. using me as such) and I will not feel that this is my role either.<br />
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Not long into dating the man I am with he was set to deploy. His mom lives far away from him and me and he told me that she asked if she could "friend" me on Facebook. I said of course. And from moment one of interaction with Cindy I have felt completely at home.<br />
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She made sure throughout the deployment that I was faring okay, she knew I was new at being a military girlfriend and so she explained a lot about how things would go/feel. She and her daughter made sure I didn't get too lonely on the nights when I used to talk to her son. They would keep me upbeat by chatting online with me and telling me funny things about him or including me in family celebrations with pictures and telling me how they can't wait to meet me and my daughter. <br />
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I loved Cindy immediately because she didn't have an expectation of communication back from me. I suppose that sounds callous but I am so busy that I sometimes can't message back to people and I am extremely introverted and I have to play an extrovert at work. This wipes me out and sometimes when I've put my daughter to bed I just want "0 people time." So she's never pumping me for information or interaction she just wants me to know she's there for me and that she was thinking of me.<br />
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I felt for the first time in a long time (God bless my one college bf's mom, her name was Judi and even after we broke up and I graduated she sent me a little bracelet with my birthstone in it and a sweet card, I wanna be a mama like that some day) I felt appreciated for just being me. Busy, single mom, crazy me.<br />
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And I treasure my relationship with this woman <span style="color: blue;">for all of this and so much more</span>. <br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">She asked me if she could print out photos of me from FB and send them to her son in a little WE LOVE YOU book while he was deployed. He sent me this pic and said "my mom is never this impressed with girls I date, lol."</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">She was sad that she didn't get to be there for homecoming so I wanted her to feel like a part of it. I sent a photo of the obnoxiously large balloon I bought and wasn't expecting such a sweet response. </td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">This made me feel super special. In 8 years together there was never a photo of me displayed at my inlaws home.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">I sent this bracelet to her for mother's day. </td></tr>
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<i><span style="color: blue;">title and text in blue from Ron Pope, one of my current favorites "I do not love you"</span></i></div>
Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04675247540496962851noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post-2379107096671343172013-04-30T13:32:00.000-05:002013-06-18T12:23:54.028-05:00you be my sunny day, I'll be your shade treeLots of stress at work equals having to shut myself into the guest room in the evenings and scrap until I feel tired. I got 5 pages done this week/weekend. That's the most productive I've been since Sloane was an infant. I have way too many supplies right now and sometimes that hinders my creativity. It was a lot easier to get started by limiting myself to one of my Studio Calico kits (from when I subscribed *sob*). Once I got a couple of layouts out of my system I opened up some more supplies.<br />
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Thankfully I can go back through my semi-monthly letters to Sloane on my blog to see what was happening around the time that the pictures of her were taken so that I can journal on the pages. Otherwise, I've learned that my memory for detail is shot.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">little bald Sloane telling me "more" Mama! </td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">One of my favorite photos Viva la Sloane! </td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Loved that fluffy yellow gingham</td></tr>
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<i>Title courtesy of Blake Shelton: Honey Bee</i>Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04675247540496962851noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post-45755988476313121342013-04-18T13:39:00.000-05:002013-04-18T13:39:17.050-05:00and while she looked so sad in photographs<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">never want to forget your little voice greeting your little cousin for the first time "hi tiny"</td></tr>
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I got a tiny bit of time to myself last night. I am out of practice, it's not my favorite but I wanted to get this story down. <br />
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Other memories for Sloane: I think aunt Tay will always love you most because when we went to the hospital all of us were jammed in her room oohing and awh-ing over Ledger. When you walked in and ran to aunt Tay because you were the only one there who was only interested in HER. :) <br />
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At this point, about a year after his birth you refer to him as your "bess friend" and you both love to see each other. <br />
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Saturday will be a whirlwind of a day at work, but I hope once that's said and done I will have a little more time to get some more of your story down on the page. I've been looking at lots of inspiration lately and am ready to follow suit. I'd love to lift these layouts: <a href="http://www.ashleyhortondesigns.com/2013/04/going-glitz.html">Ashley Horton</a> & my <a href="http://marklandandmain.blogspot.com/2013/03/memorable-moments.html">personal friend Ashley </a> & this <a href="http://artfuldelight.blogspot.com/2013/04/april-kit-sketches-and-some-inspiration.html">sketch</a><br />
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<i>title courtesy of the 90's---- Nine Days: Absolutely </i>Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04675247540496962851noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post-41154902481373616222013-04-17T11:47:00.001-05:002013-04-17T11:47:22.308-05:00art is why I get up in the morningIn all the work chaos, in all the political blathering and state of the city hubbub all I want to do is let out a little creativity. I am getting excited about directing <i>The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee</i> (my favorite musical) this summer, but it isn't soon enough to let out all of this pent up ART!<br />
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However, I have misplaced the power source to my scanner. I just can't photograph a layout and have it be as sharp as a scan can. :) But here are some recent (as in at least 90 days ago) pages I created. <br />
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I really have no excuse to not be scrapping away in the evenings after Sloane's in bed, my dad got us a great portable table for Christmas and I have been itching to spread out all my supplies.<br />
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Although I confess I have found the time sucker: I have a horrible addiction to a trial right now (I know, I know I promised not to get involved in watching trials again after that circus I watched last summer, and after how I cried for about a week when a jury acquitted OJ Simpson when I was in high school). But I <b>always</b> get sucked in (then I justify this by annoying my mom and sister until they get involved too). So by the time I catch up on testimony it's time for bed. The defense rested yesterday, so only have rebuttal and closing arguments to go. <br />
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Hopefully order will be restored soon and I can get back to the scrap table in the evening. Just doing these few pages makes me remember that I want to document some of the cute and interesting things Sloaney is doing right now.<br />
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So I don't completely forget. <br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">"I want a Hoot-Hoo party and a moon" Sloane circa age 2</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">A page about Sloane's first phrases including "good guhl"</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">16 mos. photo shoot (a year ago-- *wah*). Love those chubby arms and calves</td></tr>
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<i>title courtesy of Out of Habit: ani difranco (I sure love her lately)</i>Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04675247540496962851noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post-78463833886323488922013-04-12T11:08:00.002-05:002013-04-12T11:09:16.444-05:00 first we admit our mistakes, then we open our eyes<div class="tr_bq">
Dear Sloane, </div>
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One thing I knew about myself before you were born is that I have a mouth on me. I knew that I was going to have a hard time not firing it off if someone hurt you. One thing I didn't know before you were born (long before) was that I was going to have a non-white child. I was going to have a child who was not born automatically with the societal white privilege I was born with.<br />
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And now you are here. And the thought of someone hurting you with their words, actions or ideas brings a tangible ache to my heart. But the thought of someone hurting you because you are black makes my blood boil. <br />
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Our little city has been in the news lately. <a href="http://newsone.com/2372511/jim-gile-kansas/">Not for a good reason</a>. But because one of our elected officials made many racist statements. And since I heard what happened my blood has been on a rapid boil. <br />
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Today I did what I hope to raise you to do. I wrote 3 letters to the three officials who can make a change to the leadership. <br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 17px;">Dear County Commissioners Price & Duncan, </span></span><span style="font-family: inherit;"><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 17px;" /></span><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; display: inline; line-height: 17px;">I was so embarrassed and disappointed to hear what transpired in your discussion on April 2nd. I am from Saline county and have always been a proud Kansan. I chose to move my family back to Salina after living in Kansas City for the past few years. One point that my husband, an African-American, was concerned about was the lack of diversity and lack of acceptance for him and our daughter if we moved to Salina. I, frankly thought his idea was ludicrous. The city I call "home" was not a place that I considered lacking in respect for people of color, even if the ratio of people of color was lower than our home in Kansas City. After awhile my husband was charmed with the smaller city feel of Salina and by what he considered to be a safer place to raise our daughter. </span></span><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; display: inline; line-height: 17px;"><br /></span></span><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; display: inline; line-height: 17px;">I am disappointed and embarrassed that an elected official in this county is trying to prove me wrong. His words and evident ideas about people are threatening that safety we felt existed for our daughter. Because you see Mr. Commissioners, crime is not the only thing that threatens safety. Ideas and attitudes can be just as threatening. </span></span><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; display: inline; line-height: 17px;"><br /></span></span><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; display: inline; line-height: 17px;">I believe as a public citizen that language is important, but for an elected official you are held to an even higher standard, your language sirs is paramount. Mr. Gile used three terms that are offensive (one within his public apology) and shouldn't ever "slip" from someone's mouth. If those words and ideas aren't in your heart & mind they will not "slip" from your tongue. </span></span><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; display: inline; line-height: 17px;"><br /></span></span><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; display: inline; line-height: 17px;">And even more sickening, when he clarified the term "n-rigging" he said "Afro-Americanized". And laughter was heard on the recording. Later he said he meant "jury-rigging", but if he had then why would he not clarify at the moment that is what he meant, rather than "Afro-Americanized"? </span></span><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; display: inline; line-height: 17px;"><br /></span></span><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; display: inline; line-height: 17px;">I hope you do the right thing. The voters and the children of this community and quite frankly the nation are watching how you react to this. </span></span><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; display: inline; line-height: 17px;"><br /></span></span><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; display: inline; line-height: 17px;">A concerned citizen, wife, mother and voter, </span></span><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; display: inline; line-height: 17px;"><br /></span></span><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; display: inline; line-height: 17px;">Shannon (last name & address)</span></span></blockquote>
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And tomorrow if change doesn't come, I will continue. Not just for you, but for you in large part. <br />
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Now mama's going to try to turn it down to a simmer, she's got other work to do too...But I want to tell you something that a man far more eloquent (and even-tempered than I am) said about this kind of thing.<br />
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Mama<br />
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<i>lyrics courtesy of Ani Difranco (mama and advocate herself) Subdivision</i>Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04675247540496962851noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post-91695539034401996452013-04-03T12:11:00.002-05:002013-04-03T12:11:43.489-05:00lie awake at night till they come back around<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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There's no cure for distraction like your dreams coming true. For the last month I have been living my own dream as I finally found and landed a job doing what I love all day long. It has made time FLY by.<br />
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Fortunately I work a CREATIVE job now, so I haven't gone home at 5pm everyday searching for a creative outlet (i.e. blogging, scrapbooking, crafting). Unfortunately I miss doing my own creativity and expression. So I am hoping I can find some balance soon. Until then, I at least want to leave some photo documentation of the last month. <br />
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<i>title courtesy of Please come to Boston; Dave Loggins</i>Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04675247540496962851noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post-38428844282907867382013-02-26T13:22:00.001-06:002013-02-26T13:22:43.006-06:00So exciting, the audience will stomp and cheer!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8Jho_pe8Fdo1bcj5acWi6cRFmnfR0v8dYSyt9DOQAs5i7buFnaJjUtHE5Cj6AP9TNe-aPkJAdM6yx2WfGCWCdLBnlQYOi8M6BApaahhz14c6Ee_6g80oBTurgi9OBidPA3EaxXyJpMkoI/s1600/yep.jpg" imageanchor="1"><img border="0" height="480" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8Jho_pe8Fdo1bcj5acWi6cRFmnfR0v8dYSyt9DOQAs5i7buFnaJjUtHE5Cj6AP9TNe-aPkJAdM6yx2WfGCWCdLBnlQYOi8M6BApaahhz14c6Ee_6g80oBTurgi9OBidPA3EaxXyJpMkoI/s640/yep.jpg" width="640" /></a><br />
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I have to interrupt my shame files series until next week. I am in the last two days of my previous job before I begin my new job (hooray, dreams coming true). So I am a mother working two full time jobs, and the show I've been directing opens tomorrow. Excuse me while I take several deep breaths. <br />
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<i>title courtesy of that consummate theatre geek's musical movie Moulin Rougue - the Pitch</i>Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04675247540496962851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post-14909600104380661802013-02-19T15:38:00.000-06:002013-02-19T15:38:08.327-06:00I guess I just lost my balance. (Shame files: Organization Series Week 4)<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I am back at it. Showing the whole world (or at least my limited number of readers) my shameful clutter sins. <br />
Today it's time to admit that the clutter had spread to my whole life. Including my car. <br />
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I was driving around in clutter (easy to do with a contributing two year old). <br />
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And it took forever people. I mean like I am still working on it. First I removed all the junk and sorted it into 3 different bags and then I dumped it all in front of our front door in order to make myself put it away again (this trick works great for me). <br />
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After I vacuumed, and scrubbed and scraped (eww what was that substance?) Here's how I organized my little car...<br />
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Ordered this from etsy in a cute fabric!<br />
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And I made one of these. This image is from Pinterest. I will upload my whole finished product when my organizer arrives! <br />
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It's honestly a breath of fresh air in my car. It previously smelled a little bit like a toddler after a long day at the park. Cannot wait to get my hands on my organizer and fill it up with goodies for Sloane to reach on the road. <br />
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title courtesy of Sloane's favorite sing-along song at the moment...Taylor, I knew you were troubleShannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04675247540496962851noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post-11567782161936868192013-02-14T12:50:00.004-06:002013-02-15T11:19:39.426-06:00You deserve an award for the role that you played<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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It's the day of love. And there are few things I love more than awards season! I love the fashion & the films and (sometimes) the actors themselves. In anticipation for the Oscars (AHHHHHH!YEAH!!!!) coming soon & the Independent Spirit Awards (coming one day sooner!), I am going to show you my favorite and my worst dressed of the awards season so far and leave you with some wishes for the Academy Awards and my predictions.
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">My favorite of the globes...Claire can do no wrong (plus she just had a baby!)<br />
Atelier Versace-- her kohl rimmed eyes make it, in my humble opinion</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">She did the Angelina Jolie leg pose! I thought we heard the end of it. <br />
My worst of the night (again this is Atelier Versace)</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">SURPISE-- a lot of people hated this. I don't like the fishtail braid but I LOVE BALL GOWNS<br />
And this Carolina Herrera is no exception.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Best of the SAGS...it was divine, and the Lorraine Schwartz Art Deco pendant...I die.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">You know what else can go away along with Angelina inspired leg-slit poses? Side-boob. Yuck. Michelle Dockery in Chado Ralph Rucci. Michelle can stay in the post-Edwardian era. <br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">SURPRISE-- I can't stand Marion (like at all), but I LOVE this DIOR...LOVE</td></tr>
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I don't usually count the Grammy's in my award season viewing, let alone fashion as I tend to prefer the classic to the outrageous. But this year I did love a few looks. <br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Carrie in Cavalli = Flawless</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Dear Gucci, I am a sucker for green on the red carpet...and I do not oppose cleavage (just side boob)</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">She's SO pretty-- but the hair is too sparse and the leg is too, well I've already told you now a few times. WORST!<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Dear Solange, Ralph Russo, those pumps and that natural hair did you RIGHT. Surprise, I love it all, head to toe!</td></tr>
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Predictions for the Academy Awards...Best Pic- Argo, Best Actor- DDL (although Bradley Cooper had such a performance in Silver Linings!), Best Actress- Chastain (I love Wallis too). <br />
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I wanna see ball gowns ladies.... someone please wear these...<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Arca Reem 2013 collection</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Love the red, love the fushia</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Dear Jessica, You are beautiful in sapphire! </td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Miss Wallis, you rock that puppy purse. You are only the youngest oscar nominee once! </td></tr>
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I found all the photos at the page I am addicted to each year: <a href="http://www.redcarpet-fashionawards.com/">RCFA!</a><br />
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Enjoy the show all, I can't wait! <br />
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<i>title courtesy of lyrics of Oscar nominee herself: Madge-- Take a bow</i><br />
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj5HVCuwABZHyLzRQ-3vQNOkkSCZfLEzL_dfLWkh7BVSNJYiOGMlF9vMejS5N3k-rsxjt2043SV9UPNwaq-jpMS6aZWesDgS4sv0pKc4p7kqnlNcj99PywLzG-WR7dhUzeZd7JiA5eida5T/s1600/halle-berry-dramatic-leg-slit-dress-2013-golden-globes.jpg" imageanchor="1"></a> Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04675247540496962851noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post-12389956376941415232013-02-12T10:21:00.001-06:002013-02-13T10:28:11.168-06:00So show me family (The Shame Files Organization Series Week 3)If you are having a time like mine I can see why only 2 people were able to link up this week. My little 2 year old, Sloane has been running a fever for 3 days now. Sigh. Not much time for organization around here. But I still have one little thing that will help me out today. <br />
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The two of you that did link up had the greatest trash to treasure link ups. Your projects cost you zilch! My favorite kind of transformations! <br />
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<a href="http://brooke%20showed%20us%20something%20that%20we%20can%20do%20for%20ourselves%20or%20make%20for%20a%20gift%20for%20others./">Brooke</a> showed us something that we can do for ourselves or make for a gift for others.<br />
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And <a href="http://meg-silverthorn.blogspot.com/2013/02/diy-kitchen-canisters.html">Meg at The Coop</a> showed us a wonderful makeover of her dry goods for kitchen canisters. And the best part about this one for me was that I had literally bought a canister the night before, then saw her DIY and took it back. 6$ more in my pocket. <br />
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Perfect job ladies! I hope people will have some time to organize this week and share with us.<br />
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For my quick project this week I focused on a little thing that drives me crazy. I loathe when I get home from work, open up my clean dishwasher full of sparkling dishes, getting ready to put them away and see a rogue dirty dish. It seems my husband feels that if there are dishes in the dishwasher they must be dirty. I am just not that quick to put away the clean ones folks. <br />
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And when I find that dirty fork in there it's like the whole load is ruined (it isn't I know, but my tendencies toward OCD find that hard to accept). So in order to save more water, energy and sanity. I created a new little thing to keep my kitchen a little more sane. <br />
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Thus, this magnet was born. I created it using left over supplies from my <a href="http://shorthistoryofnow.blogspot.com/2012/12/put-sufjan-stevens-on-and-well-play.html">Christmas coaster project</a>, some paint, ink, a emery board to sand and ModPodg to seal, and a magnet glued to the back. Pretty simple. Now if I can only remind myself to change the magnet and my husband to heed it's warning. <br />
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Here's a look at another project I'm working on this week. <br />
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<i>title courtesy of The Lumineers Ho Hey (That sweetheart song)</i>
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I linked up here: <center><a href="http://gingersnapcrafts.com/search/label/%7Bwow%20me%7D%20wednesday"><img border="0"src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj-GXwGFN35440kP5o5a8mwFzkjdyJPv4JLWmOA3QCKnQRCwn5XlQTy4i3-mpEEGO_DpTwuaHad1Vt3GxbUQHen1i5iKjP1GBwGsUYSlpYkt6zIeXwt25eGjFAhNjWn7J8y4hGC3Hn20Z0x/s1600/wow-me.png"/></a></center>Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04675247540496962851noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post-31137444739383067662013-02-06T13:01:00.001-06:002013-02-06T13:01:58.488-06:00It would be a deep deep blueI have this H&M sweater that I adore and is sentimental because Mr. K bought it for me while we were in Philadelphia together, but I haven't worn it in 2 years because it has a strange unknown and unforgivable stain. <br />
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I have tried every stain solution and just can't seem to get it out. As I was speeding through the laundry section the other day trying to find the ingredients to DIY my own laundry soap (still have yet to find washing soda in stock). I saw the cache of Rit Dyes. I have a pair of jeans that are a few years old and are looking pretty acid washed lately so I thought I'd pick up a little "denim" color and try my hand at dying the jeans.
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When I got home and read the RIT packaging and it said I could add up to 2 lbs of clothing per bottle. All I had was this measly pair of jeans. It seemed like a waste of time/dye. Then I thought about my old sweater (it's been living on my closet floor for so long!).
I have been crushing on all things chambray & maxi skirt w/ graphic tee lately...and I thought the sweater might just turn out a lovely chambray shade. (Hello two birds, meet one stone).
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I was super nervous because everything on people's blogs about RIT shows the difficulty of the process (granted most of these are hombre techniques and crazy cool other stuff). I chose the top loader technique (since that's what I'm working with) and frankly the stove top method terrified me. I added a cup of salt (for cotton) to the dye bath (hottest water on longest setting) and wetted my clothes in the bathtub (check out how I transported them medical personnel, I found a momentary use for the mauve hospital tub). After dying you wash on warm with detergent, then you do another load (while your dyed clothing is drying) either empty or with old rags/towels and bleach to cleanse your basin of all the dye, worked like a charm. <br />
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My jeans didn't have a dramatic effect, but they <i>are</i> less stone-washed.<br />
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<span style="text-align: start;">But the sweater, the sweater I LOVE. A whole new life for it. I love how the buttons and the button threads stayed white, and the rest is that yummy chambray color. And the cardigan I found on Polyvore, it's 149 pounds, the RIT was about 3 dollars, the sweater was a gift (gratis!). </span></div>
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And an option, if you can't find the perfect chambray shirt, dye a comfy white one.
The stain is completely unnoticeable. I will definitely RIT dye again.<br />
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Linking up at<a href="http://www.sugaranddots.com/2013/02/what-i-whipped-up-wednesday-giveaway.html"> Sugar and Dots</a>, and <a href="http://theivycottageblog.blogspot.com/2013/02/cowgirl-up-link-pary-52-one-year.html">Cowgirl Up</a> link parties. <br />
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(PS RIT doesn't even know about this post, let alone compensate me for my opinion).
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<i>title courtesy of It Would be You: Gary Allan, here's looking at you <a href="http://marklandandmain.blogspot.com/">Ash! </a></i>Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04675247540496962851noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post-18419017321718259662013-02-05T10:51:00.001-06:002013-02-05T10:52:10.055-06:00Honey pick the red corner shoes The ones that hardly ever get used (Shame Files Series: Week 2)<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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It's time for more shame purging. I am loving that I am also purging my Pinterest boards as I go as well! <br />
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Last week was the first week and we had 7 of you link up. I loved all the posts from last week. Here are the highlights I found. <br />
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<a href="http://meg-silverthorn.blogspot.com/2013/01/getting-organized-spice-cabinet.html">Meg</a> did her spice cabinet (although in my hoarder sensibilities I thought "I hope desperately you kept that old mustard tin and just cleaned it out, that would make a fabulous little craft someday").<br />
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<a href="http://breannriggert.blogspot.com/2013/01/because-i-am-shameful-too.html">Breann</a> was brave enough to tackle under the sink. I took one look under mine a couple days ago and thought-- no way am I ready for that yet. Especially since Keenan has started a new face care regimen that includes oats, honey, olive oil, tea tree oil and other such things now being kept in under our bathroom sink. Weird/gross. <br />
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In my dreams mine will look so nice too. Someday.<br />
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And because I am always looking to do new things on a dime, I especially loved this organization post by <a href="http://blissfulroots.blogspot.com/2013/01/diy-tin-can-organizers.html">Brooke of Blissful Roots</a> (I'm a new follower!)<br />
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Check out her white bean tip for keeping your pens standing up so nice: brilliant! <br />
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Hope you all play along this week as well.<br />
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I wanted to do something fun this week. Among my favorite possessions in my home are my books. Although you wouldn't know it if you saw my hallway bookcase a few days ago. <br />
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It was our hallway dumping ground. The top shelf shows you a conglomeration of things I have yet to put away from the wedding (in October) There's a broken frame and three cookbooks to relocate to the kitchen, a pair of mittens and some washi tape on that second shelf, a nativity snow globe waiting to be put in the Christmas stuff on the third shelf...<br />
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I got myself a fabric grocery bag (to take some books to the used book store) and spent a little time on Pinterest gathering inspiration. <br />
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So I set out to do some organizing and here's what I came up with...Mind you the light in my hallway is atrocious, and of course I finished this last night...so I apologize for the photos being a <strike>little</strike> lot less than stellar.<br />
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It looks a lot better. It is still a work in progress though. I am not happy with the non-fiction shelf (the second shelf from the bottom). I also had to keep in mind that Sloane sometimes helps herself to the books on that shelf too (not just her own bottom shelf). <br />
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I plan to change the quotes up a little bit to go with the month. I chose an MLK quote about love for February. The chalkboard is a spray painted old tray. The frame contains dates of when we met, moved in together and got married, and the little frame holds a domino (just thought it was cute). Which knocked out 3 Pinterest projects for me. <br />
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I just love that second shelf. The vintage books and the post is a table number (our anniversary day) from my brother's wedding. <br />
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The very bottom shelf I left disheveled for the littlest reader in the house, that way all of her books are within reach. <br />
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<i>title courtesy of Let's Make Peace Tonight: by the Indigo Girls</i>
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Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04675247540496962851noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post-6120389827083797622013-02-04T11:29:00.003-06:002013-02-04T11:29:58.908-06:00This could be the year for the real thingEverybody's doing it. <br />
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At least that's what it seems like. It's February, love month. There's all the candies and sentiments and jewelry commercials. It's Keenan's birthday soon. There's pressure everywhere to LOVE gosh darnit.<br />
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And then, Saturday night, after Sloane is in bed we settle in for a film. And somehow we get into an argument, a literal raised voice, hurt feelings argument over whether the movie Seven Psychopaths is gratuitous for gratuitous(ity's?) sake or if the screenwriter's intent of cinematic commentary was useful. (Seriously these are the things we argue about). And it wasn't until morning that we both conceded that not arguing with each other is more important than the artistic merit of a movie. <br />
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Flash forward to sitting in church on Sunday the minister informs us that he is beginning a series on relationships, and loving our spouses and not being selfish, and being kind (my stomach was gurgling from guilt not the thought of Super Bowl snacks). <br />
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Then surfing my blog reader on my new phone <a href="http://www.todaysletters.com/">one of my favorite blogs</a> is just sweet as usual.<br />
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Everybody's doing it <b>but us</b>. <br />
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This month, Keenan and I are co-directing a show that goes up in the end of the month, he is starring in a show (where he commutes 45 minutes one-way each evening) which goes up the end of the month. I find myself quite often wishing away the entire next three weeks. Get me to the pay-off and get it over with. PLEASE. <br />
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Sure I could chalk up February as commercialized. Or I could use it to motivate myself to work on myself and our relationship. Especially when I know how busy this month is, it's a good time to remind myself and the Mr. how great everything really is. <br />
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There are only 24 more days of the month. So I've written myself a question on every day of my planner. How will I show love today? I don't like unanswered questions. <br />
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So in the spirit of February and in <a href="http://www.todaysletters.com/2010/11/our-story.html">this love story</a> that I keep coming back to...and in <a href="http://shorthistoryofnow.blogspot.com/2012/02/whats-tale-nightingale.html">our own love story</a>. I am going to focus less on "what have you done for me lately?"<br />
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I mean, cause a girl who gets to be married to a man who bears an uncanny resemblance to this guy, shouldn't complain too much.<br />
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So the birthday will be the easiest day. Now to figure out something a little special for the other 23 days.<br />
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<i>lyrics courtesy of my favorite (don't call it corny) duet: Islands in the Stream (ok it's a little corny): Dolly & Kenny</i></div>
Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04675247540496962851noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post-50716953064804041302013-01-31T12:08:00.000-06:002013-02-01T11:09:14.020-06:00You can lead the way<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Dearest,<br />
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I admit it. I am a sucker. A mindless consumer trying desperately to try to be mindful of all things "How to raise a ________ (insert awesome characteristic here) daughter." I know there are worse things I could be addicted to but it's so important to <strike>me </strike> us that we teach you that being a girl is <b>not</b> what the media tries to sell you these days (which is to say that your only purpose in life is to be attractive and loved by men, but not TOO many men).<br />
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So when you were born I read all the studies about television and media. Turns out the whole thing is a bunch of crap, all of it. There are even stereotypical gender roles in Sesame Street (gasp, I really <i>love</i> Sesame). So I began to face parental dilemma (for TV <strike>whores</strike> <strike>addicts </strike> aficionados like myself) TV or not? How much TV and what? I opted for TV in moderation (selfishly as I can't eliminate from myself completely...how will I know what happens to Olivia and President Fitzgerald Grant?) So we found<a href="http://www.sproutonline.com/"> Sprout.</a> As a sorta-wanna-be-hippie/ster I love all things "public broadcast". Sprout is produced by PBS.<br />
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Mostly you enjoyed the Pajanimals before bed and in the morning Sesame Street (specifically Elmo) and then you got the black plague of winter 2012 (that lasted into the new year). And your TV watching increased in direct proportion to my exhaustion. <br />
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Your Sprout viewing expanded (it's PBS, it can't be bad, right?) You found Caillou. You loved his theme song. You loved when the weird grandma narrator deciphered Caillou's cryptic emotions "Caillou's sad" (says the voice over while onscreen we see screaming, whining, crying Caillou). <br />
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Daddy and I thought Caillou's theme song was a little <strike>bratty </strike> disrespectful when he states "growing up is not so tough, 'cept when I've had enough." Had enough? Had enough of what?! You are 4!? But we allowed you to continue your Caillou obsession. While you had a double ear infection I let you watch Caillou most of the day (curse you On Demand) on the couch. <br />
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Since then something took hold in you...<br />
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You started uttering the following phrases on the regular:<br />
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"Es too har" (it's too hard)<br />
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"Es not fair" (the fair's in August kiddo)<br />
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As I watched Caillou with you in the morning recently I heard the bald headed tot <strike>say</strike> whine the same thing numerous times in only 24 minutes. And I had a moment where I wanted to jump into Caillou's mom's strange clothing (is that Canadian style?) and give that little tot a piece of my mind. <br />
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One of those recently read<a href="http://www.pbs.org/parents/raisinggirls/powerful/"> tenets</a> of raising a powerful girl (told you I love PBS) popped into my head: <span style="font-family: inherit;">"<span style="background-color: white; line-height: 20px; margin: 0px;">Encourage her to solve issues on her own rather than fixing things for her."</span><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 20px;"> Lately every time you said "mommy it's too hard" I would rush over to my poor baby and fix it. "It's not fair" left me trying to reason with you about concepts far above your comprehension. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 20px;">So I made a unilateral parenting decision (your dad was at work). I sent Caillou on a long vacation. And introduced you to (the early seasons) of Dora. I am glad to see you enjoying a female protagonist who loves to exclaim "We did it!". And in the meantime we are working to deprogram the Caillou right out of you. </span></span><span style="line-height: 20px;">Sayanora punk.</span><br />
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<span style="line-height: 20px;">Of course we will help you if you can't, but we believe y</span><span style="line-height: 20px;">ou can do it,</span><br />
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<span style="line-height: 20px;">mama </span><br />
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<i>title courtesy of a much better theme song<span style="font-family: inherit;"> <span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 16px;">!Lo hicimos! We did it</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 16px;"> </span></span></i><br />
<br />Shannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04675247540496962851noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6911614540760263604.post-26131334480848360112013-01-30T11:16:00.001-06:002013-01-31T10:48:26.280-06:00Your little eyelids flutter cause you're dreamingWelcome to Sloane's sweet little second birthday party (it was over a month ago, but I still haven't collected all the pics from various cameras I wanted to post). We had a <a href="https://www.etsy.com/transaction/102428270">night owl theme party</a>. Her guests ate pizza for dinner and played until 8pm, and wore their pajamas of course. <br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">I made the cupcakes and the little owls using a circle punch and a stamp </td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">my favorite project (it stayed up for days) a little timeline of Sloane's last two years topped with a "happy birthday" bunting<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">cousin Kolten</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">The girls: Brielle & Sloane</td></tr>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><i>title courtesy of Taylor Swift: Never Grow Up </i>(sob)</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">linking up at <a href="http://www.gingersnapcrafts.com/2013/01/wow-me-wednesday-88.html">Ginger Snaps Crafts</a> & <a href="http://thenymelrosefamily.com/">Whimsy Wednesday</a></span></div>
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